✨☝Be YOU

In my life I had a previous friendship that as my therapist described, was like, ”diving into the deep end before testing the water’  (a pool reference) which could be refreshing or a nightmare. This was a very accurate analogy for what I experienced. This...

Celibacy, sex and creativity

The best thing I ever did for myself was to stop dating for years at a time. Practicing CELIBACY. No intimacy with anyone and just being able to focus on my Life, my goals, my future. This (coming up on) four year period is different for me, because I am crippled,...

Surviving Not Thriving Continued

                   Last night when I woke up from a dream, I couldn’t help but think about the night that my ex body slammed me off of the bed, it fractured my collarbone. Which is the reason I needed three shoulder surgeries. Instead of just one. I screamed out the...

Surviving not yet thriving

  Surviving not yet thriving I’ve been alone completely, for 3 years and 10 months. How long it’s been since I got away from my abuser. My ex crippled me in May of 2020 and I spent months attempting to negotiate with him about my freedom. Often times he would...